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Feeling low or extremely sad

It's normal for us to feel low, sad and upset when we are faced with difficult times and challenging circumstances. These feelings usually pass over time and we get back to being ourselves. It’s common for us to have emotional ups and downs during our teenage years when we have lots of physical and emotional changes to cope with.

Low mood and depression

If feelings of sadness and low mood go on for a long time, start to effect the way we think and feel, and interfere with our ability to enjoy life, it could be a sign of depression. Any one of us can experience depression; it can affect people of all ages.

Milder forms of depression can mean just being in low spirits. It may not stop you leading your normal life but it can make everything seem harder to do and feel less worthwhile. At its most severe, however, depression can make your life very difficult to manage. It can affect the relationships you have with family and friends. It may interfere with your schoolwork and your social life. And for some people it can be so bad that they lose the will to do anything.

How do I know if I have depression?

Some of the symptoms of depression include:

  • Being moody and irritable – easily upset, ‘ratty’ or tearful
  • Becoming withdrawn – avoiding friends, family and regular activities
  • Feeling guilty or bad, being self-critical and self-blaming – hating yourself
  • Feeling unhappy, miserable and lonely a lot of the time
  • Feeling hopeless and wanting to die
  • Finding it difficult to concentrate
  • Not looking after your personal appearance
  • Changes in sleep pattern: sleeping too little or too much
  • Feeling tired
  • Not interested in eating, eating little or too much
  • Suffering aches and pains, such as headaches or stomach-aches
  • Feeling you are not good looking.

If you have all or most of these signs and have had them over a long period of time, it may mean that you are depressed and you might benefit from seeking help.

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Getting More Help

Talking to family and friends about your worries can help you feel more supported. You might want to talk to someone outside the family like a GP, teacher or mentor at school, or even a friend’s parent. Choose someone you trust and if you find it difficult to talk about how you are feeling, you could write them a letter or send them a text. Support is also available through Childline, Compass BUZZ, Kooth and Recovery College Online.

Childline

Childline provides a free and confidential telephone service for children and young people up to the age of 19.

Visit Childline website Call 0800 1111

BUZZ US

Compass BUZZ offers a confidential text messaging service, called BUZZ US, to young people aged 11-18 across North Yorkshire.

Visit Compass BUZZ website Call 07520 631168

Kooth

Kooth online counselling is a free, safe and anonymous service for 11-18 year olds where young people can chat 1-2-1 with counsellors.

Visit Kooth website

Recovery College Online

The Recovery College Online provides a range of online educational courses and resources to people with mental illness.

Visit Recovery College Online website

Getting Urgent Help

If you’ve seriously injured yourself or taken an overdose call 999 or get immediate medical advice from NHS 111.

If you are in a crisis and feel like you can’t cope, speak to somebody straight away. Search below for help or see the Urgent Help page for contact details for the North Yorkshire single point of access Crisis Service.

 

 


Things you might find useful

Young Minds

Information and advice on living with depression.

Visit Young Minds website

Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM)

Website for young men who are feeling down or in a crisis.

Visit CALM website

NHS Moodzone

Practical, useful information, interactive tools, and videos to support you on your way to feeling better.

Visit NHS website

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